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Inumulo HRUDAYAM molicheney! ❤️

loving relationship is one in which the loved one is free to be himself -- to laugh with me, but never at me; to cry with me, but never because of me; to love life, to love himself, to love being loved. Such a relationship is based upon freedom and can never grow in a jealous heart." - LEO F. BUSCAGLIA Relationships are complicated isn't it? The more you hold on to it, the more you become the weakest. At the same time, it will also make you stronger and successful. Indeed it is! A relationship can make you successful if you work on it. Apart from goals, try to work on your relationship too. You don't need to try if you're blood related to that person like Mom, Dad or your siblings because whatever situation it is they'll always take a stance. But when it comes to friends or a partner, they'll step back sometimes to face a challenge along with you. Not everyone can stand by you. You're lucky if you have someone who can stand by you in your life. If you're having any problem with your partner, take time and stay away from them for few days. Don't ever take any decision in a rush. Let me tell you my definition of Love in few words. My definition of LOVE: My mom who takes care of me when I'm sick, though I'm 24. She's still the same and nothing's changed. And I call that 'LOVE'! My Dad, who is overprotective and possessive, still worries about me when I go out to buy groceries nearby. And I call that 'LOVE'! My Elsa, with whom I fight, tease, and with whom I stop talking for months is the best sibling one can have. We fight and we come back and like everyone we don't hug each other nor express love. But we stand for each other in every challenge. And I call that 'LOVE'! My Bestfriend who is more in love with me than her, still encourages me in every stupid thing I do, supports and understands me like no one else. And I call that 'LOVE'! My cousins, who I can always count on are the best cousins one can have. They're the ones who encourage and support me after my family. And I call that 'LOVE'! My friends, with whom I'm not blood-related take a stance when I am in a difficult situation. They win every time, I wonder how? I have many people in my life but Whom I call 'FRIENDS' are few. And I call what they show is 'LOVE'! Lastly, you're lucky, luckier, and luckiest if you find the one in who you can see all these traits in one person! You'll be the happiest, happier, happiest if you have already found one! You're the more luckiest if you find yourself enough! And I call that 'LOVE'! 😉 If you're enough to yourself you don't really need someone to rely on! :) I'm not an expert to give you advices about relationship. But I can only say one thing, please do remember this point when ever you feel like giving up your life just because you got cheated by your partner or whatever. I believe that the beating in our hearts are put to remind us that when we feel alone in the world, a part of us marches on. That even at our lowest we carry something inside of us that we can lean on. Even when there is no one else, we always have overselves. Your ex might get a new one, but there's no replacement to YOU in your parents and friends life. I've seen many people who are depressed getting married. They're suffering more after getting married which is again leading to depression. I've also heard news about my friend who committed suicide due to depression. Please think about your parents, friends, and your loving partner, before you take your life. I've been through lot of pain after loosing two of my friends. I know how much pain, one should go through. Too often we love the people who don't love us, but we fail to return the love of others who do. If you feel its unrequited love, just stay away. Life is short, so give yourself to someone who deserves you. Before you date someone, wait and take a break. If you've lost yourself in a relationship, find yourself in the heart break.

Let me tell you a story behind this picture. Once upon a time, there lived a boy who stayed miles away from his girl. On 29th June 2020, he sent her this picture saying, "Nenu iron ni bend chesa nikosam chusava 😂". Already LOVE happened anta but this picture hit different when he sent it to her. Because Little things make people like me happier. P.S: 'Evadu Evadu Nee Coffee Kalipey Vaadu! Ninnu Aaach thippey Vaadu!" ani adigaru anuko notlo hankey kukkesthanu! 🥺😪

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